Throughout my life I have been considered strong-willed. My mother called me "head-strong". I have heard that there are individuals with such strength of will that they can create with the strength of that will. I have wondered if it was possible to, by my own "will", create love for me in you. And I followed that notion with wondering about the consequences of such an act. It did not take me long....perhaps a heartbeat......to figure it out. To figure out that no matter how much I loved...and no matter how much I wanted love back......that such "self-created" love would have no value to me. It would be like looking at my own reflection in a mirror. You would never be there.